The More Sibyl Podcast

우리의 대리모 이야기| Our Sùúrùgate Journey - Welcoming our Joy | Episode 15 (2025)

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Last year, I had my second child through surrogacy. It was a long, tedious, and rewarding journey that inspired this series: Sùúrùgate. 

This premiere episode of the Sùúrùgate series is a deeply personal monologue about my journey to motherhood. A journey that spanned nearly a decade and took me through infertility, loss, hope, adoption, and finally, surrogacy.

I open up about the early days of trying to conceive, the countless medical procedures, failed IVF cycles, and the heartbreak that followed each disappointment. I speak honestly about the emotional toll, the spiritual wrestling, and the cultural expectations that made the experience even more isolating.

After adopting our first child, Ariifeoluwa, surrogacy became another viable option to parenthood. My husband and I chose to explore that route in Nigeria. I walk you through how we selected a clinic, navigated contracts, and managed the long-distance process.

I also reflect on the silence and stigma that often surround infertility in African and faith-based communities. Through this monologue, I hope to break that silence, sharing not just the hard parts, but also the faith, patience (sùúrù), and unexpected beauty that carried me through.

This episode sets the tone for the rest of the Sùúrùgate series, where I’ll dive deeper into the practical and emotional aspects of building a family in unconventional ways, especially from an African and diasporan lens. So stay tuned for the whole month as we dive into Sùúrùgate.

Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/our-s%C3%B9%C3%BAr%C3%B9gate-journey-welcoming-our-joy-70bfc589f209

경계의 아이들| On Life Curveballs & Crossing Cultures — An Astonishing Reunion with Tanya Crossman | Episode 14 (2025)

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Our final episode in our Reunion series is with our Third-Culture Aussie, Tanya Crossman. This episode is not what you would expect, but it was heartfelt and thought-provoking. Tanya Crossman is a well-known author, speaker, and educator. She focuses on Third Culture Kids (TCKs) and cross-cultural identity. She has lived in China for over ten years. She co-authored a book for Australian TCKs. She also helps globally mobile families with identity, belonging, and generational dynamics.

Seven years after her first podcast, Tanya is back. She shares her thoughts on personal and global change. We explore how a major life event changed her life completely, how the pandemic changed her relationship with China, and lessons from her latest writing project, including a powerful exercise she developed to visually map the changing facets of home across different times and places. This tool revealed to her just how much her sense of identity, safety, and community had shifted over the years.

In this episode, we talk about why character development matters more than achievements. We explore how hardship can lead to quiet growth and discuss how storytelling can heal, especially when our stories reveal truths we didn’t know we needed.

Listen to the full episode to hear Tanya’s story, lessons, and insights.

Connect with Tanya and explore her resources on Instagram:@tck_tanya

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• Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/on-life-curveballs-crossing-cultures-47b76f42fd89 

 

다시 피어나다| Healing, Aging & Doing Life God’s Way — A Reflective Reunion with Ada Unigwe | Episode 13 (2025)

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We're still celebrating our milestone anniversary by reconnecting with some of the incredible voices from our past — and in this episode, I'm sitting down again with my dear friend, Ms. Ada Unigwe, first featured in our 2018 episode, “The Life of a Woman.” In this honest and heart-centered conversation, Ada reflects on the changes the past seven years have brought — from navigating premenopause and parenting with intention, to building a foundation of faith for her children. She shares how her views on love, legacy, and purpose have evolved, and why she now chooses alignment with God's will over chasing societal expectations. We also get honest about the silent struggles of African single moms in the diaspora, the stigma of divorce in African communities, and how faith has helped Ada reframe loss, rejection, and healing. Plus, she opens up about her dating journey, her decision to step back, and what it looks like to trust God one day at a time. If you're navigating heartbreak, solo parenting, or simply seeking encouragement in your faith journey, this episode is a poignant reminder: your story matters, with its scars, softness, strength, and all.

 

Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/healing-growth-aging-and-living-life-gods-way-after-divorce-e68c83fa746b

빛 속에서| How the Mission is Going: An Inspiring Reunion with Doctor, Pastor Henry Olamiju | Episode 12 (2025)

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In this soulful and wide-ranging reunion episode, Mo! reconnects with Dr. Henry Olamiju—physician, pastor, photographer, husband, and purpose-driven creative—seven years after his first appearance on The More Sibyl Podcast. What unfolds is a rich conversation on growth, calling, and the courage it takes to live authentically across multiple identities.

They explore the power of showing up fully in community, the liberation that comes from bringing hidden struggles into the light, and how pain, when met with honesty, can become a wellspring of purpose and healing. From navigating pastoral responsibilities in London to balancing fatherhood, exams, and ministry, Dr. Olamiju shares how grace, discipline, and a supportive partner have kept him grounded.

Together, they reflect on the beauty of community, the burden of silence, and the necessity of mentorship in our 40s and beyond. They uncover how our earliest experiences quietly prepare us for lives we couldn’t have imagined.

Whether you're sitting with unresolved pain, navigating a transition, or trying to figure out your place in the world, this episode offers gentle encouragement, spiritual insight, and a reminder that legacy isn't what we leave behind, it's what we live into every day.

Tune in for laughter, wisdom, and a soulful check-in that's equal parts therapy session, pep talk, and praise break.

 

Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/how-the-mission-is-going-bbf787109bb8 

나이지리아의 이해 현지 법률|The One with Adeola Kolawole - The A-Z of Business and Real Estate Law in Nigeria | Episode 10 (2025)

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All good things must come to an end—and what better way to wrap up our entrepreneurial series than with today's powerhouse episode!

We're joined by Adeola Kolawole, a seasoned corporate and real estate lawyer, to unpack the essentials of business law in Nigeria. From her path into the legal profession to the sobering realities facing young lawyers in Nigeria, Adeola brings clarity, candor, and a wealth of experience.

In this episode, we explore the legal must-knows for starting a business, and take a deep dive into the layered complexities of real estate law—especially in Lagos State. (Spoiler alert: We ask the hard questions—like, why are Lagos rents so high?)

But there's more to Adeola than her legal chops—she's also a wife, mom, mentor, and a Finnish language learner (yes, really!).

This episode is a must-listen for anyone considering starting a business or purchasing property in Nigeria. It's also a clarion call to lawyers, policymakers, and law firms to create a legal ecosystem that truly serves the people.

Learn more about Adeola and her firm at aalawsng.com , and don't forget to catch up on your favorite streaming platform.

 

Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/the-legal-hustle-business-law-real-estate-realities-in-nigeria-fb1f7f3920bc

배움, 땀, 유산|The One with Mr. Chris Chime - On Milking the Hustle: Secrets from an Entrepreneur Mastermind | Episode 9 (2025)

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What happens when a serial entrepreneur takes a leap from Nigeria to Canada and builds business bridges across continents? You get Chris Chime—a man of grit, grace, and plenty of entrepreneurial spice. In this powerful episode, Chris walks us through his journey of growing up Igbo (business was in his blood!), starting a pest control company from scratch, pivoting to logistics in Canada, and maintaining integrity while managing cross-continental ventures. We talk about cultural transitions, immigrant hustle, starting over in a new land, the Nigerian community in diaspora, and what it means to make peace with the 80/20 rule—even when your employees are “corporately stealing.” Gems on mindset shifts, knowing when to pivot, and trusting the process await you. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, immigrant, or dreamer, this one’s for you.

🎧 Listen now on your favorite platform! 📲 Share, review, and tag @mosibyl if it resonates!

📩 Want to connect with Chris? Reach out to him at info@groundmovers.ca or chimechris28@gmail.com

Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/milking-the-hustle-secrets-from-an-entrepreneur-mastermind-b265e87d2c64 

장애인의 희망|The One with Ms. Crystal Chigbu - Beyond the Limb: A Mother’s Fight for Disability Advocacy & Inclusion| Episode 7 (2025)

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Imagine being a new mom, filled with joy and anticipation—only to be told that your child will need an amputation. The shock, the fear, the overwhelming uncertainty. Now, imagine channeling that pain into a movement that transforms not just your child's life but the lives of thousands. That’s exactly what Crystal Chigbu, founder of The Irede Foundation, has done. In this episode, Crystal shares her incredible journey from corporate leadership at Procter & Gamble to becoming a pioneer in disability advocacy in Nigeria. Her personal experience raising a child with limb loss led to the creation of a foundation that has provided over 600 prosthetic limbs to children across Africa, restoring their mobility, confidence, and hope.

Crystal takes us through the challenges and triumphs of navigating career transitions with purpose and resilience, the realities of building and sustaining a successful social enterprise, and the role of mentorship, coaching, and gender dynamics in professional growth. She opens up about overcoming grief and emotional hurdles, the importance of storytelling with dignity in disability advocacy, and the groundbreaking innovations in prosthetics and the future of local production in Nigeria. We also explore fundraising and scaling a non-profit with credibility and transparency, ensuring long-term impact.

Crystal’s journey is a testament to the power of community, purpose, and persistence. You can help amplify this impact! Support The Irede Foundation by:
💙 Donating to provide prosthetic limbs for children.
🤝 Volunteering your time or skills.
📢 Spreading awareness about disability inclusion.

Visit www.theiredefoundation.org or follow @theiredefoundation on social media to get involved!

At The More Sibyl Community, we believe in action, not just words. That’s why we’re leading by example with a $200 donation—and we encourage you to join us in making a difference!

🎧 Listen now, be inspired, and take action!

 

Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/beyond-the-limb-a-mothers-fight-for-disability-advocacy-inclusion-7c09b6da01e5

아프리카 혁신 성장|The One with Ms. Akaego Okoye - On the African Business Landscape and Community Building | Episode 6 (2025)

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Join us as we launch our March series spotlighting entrepreneurs who are driving a new era of growth, innovation, and African ownership. In this episode, we sit down with Akaego Okoye—lawyer, business strategist, and founder of African Business Stories—for a deep dive into the realities of building, scaling, and sustaining businesses in Africa. She unpacks common misconceptions, explores the power of regional trade, and explains why an "Africa First" mindset is critical for sustainable growth and self-sufficiency.

Throughout our conversation, we highlight some of Africa’s biggest success stories, from Botswana’s free education model and Kenya’s fintech revolution to Rwanda’s thriving startup scene and Nigeria’s leadership in local content policies that ensure African ownership in key industries. Akaego also breaks down Africa’s aviation and infrastructure challenges, from long-haul travel delays to inefficiencies in cross-border payments, and discusses how solutions like the Pan-African Payment and Settlement System (PAPSS) and Lobito Corridor could revolutionize trade across the continent.

Beyond business, Akaego shares the hidden currency of success: networking, relationship-building, and storytelling. She reflects on how meaningful connections have shaped her career, how visibility empowers entrepreneurs, and why African women in business must take up space and own their narratives. She also delves into her pioneering work in business aviation, playing a key role in launching Nigeria’s first private jet terminal and reshaping corporate air travel in Africa. She emphasizes the importance of streamlined infrastructure and better connectivity for economic growth and trade across the continent.

As Africa reclaims its economic identity, this conversation unpacks both the challenges and opportunities in intra-African trade, infrastructure gaps, payment solutions, and business ecosystems that prioritize African entrepreneurs. Tune in now for a robust conversation on Africa’s next chapter!

Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/african-business-landscape-and-community-building-82da14d6cc01

암, 우리가 이긴다| The One with Dr. Traci Bethea: On Empowering Ourselves against Cancer | Episode 5 (2025)

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What if your curiosity could be your superpower? In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Traci Bethea, an epidemiologist and researcher at Georgetown Lombardi Comprehensive Cancer Center, whose natural inquisitiveness led her to groundbreaking work in cancer health disparities. From growing up in a military family and exploring new places to investigating the environmental and social factors that influence breast cancer in Black women, Dr. Bethea shares how her passion for discovery and equity in healthcare has shaped her career. We explore her research on how factors such as childbirth, breastfeeding, and even personal care products may influence cancer risk and outcomes. If you’ve ever wondered why Black women are being diagnosed with aggressive breast cancers at younger ages—or what can be done about it—this episode is full of gems you won’t want to miss.

But the conversation doesn’t stop at research. Dr. Bethea opens up about survivorship, the power of sleep, and how small lifestyle changes can have a big impact on long-term health. She also sheds light on how stress, environmental exposures, and historical health challenges may be shaping cancer risks in Black communities worldwide. For those navigating a cancer diagnosis or supporting loved ones through it, Dr. Bethea shares practical, empowering advice on making informed healthcare decisions. This episode isn’t just about cancer—it’s about understanding our bodies, advocating for better care, and ultimately, thriving. Tune in for a powerful conversation that just might change the way you think about health and prevention.

Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/empowering-ourselves-against-cancer-b9c1072ea22f 

사도 바울의 교훈| "I, Paul" with Doc Ayomide: Exploring Cultural Relevance and Timeless Lessons | Episode 4 (2025)

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Was Apostle Paul a misogynist, or has history misunderstood him? In this thought-provoking episode, I sit down with our longtime bestie, Doc Ayomide, to dive deep into the controversial legacy of one of Christianity’s most influential figures. From debates surrounding his teachings on gender roles and inclusivity to his radical transformation from persecutor to preacher, we unpack the historical and cultural contexts behind Paul’s writings. Was he truly misogynistic, or have his words been misapplied over time? Together, we explore these questions and more, offering fresh perspectives on how Paul’s teachings can inspire us to bridge divides and build more inclusive communities today.

This conversation isn’t just about history—it’s about relevance. We discuss how Paul’s cultural adaptability and commitment to inclusivity challenge us to engage with our faith deeply and critically. Doc Ayomide shares powerful insights into how Paul’s letters, written as a “Plan B” while imprisoned, became a timeless legacy of transformation and hope. Whether you’re navigating personal change, seeking to understand different perspectives, or striving to make an impact in your community, Paul’s story has something for everyone. Tune in to discover how his life and teachings can inspire your own journey—don’t forget to share your thoughts with us! Let’s keep the conversation going.

Read blog: https://mosibyl.medium.com/i-paul-the-life-of-the-great-apostle-bc0bc893cee4