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The More Sibyl Podcast is hosted by Mo! Sibyl - a Nigerian-born, US-educated, Korean-speaking, Struggling Intellectual. The More Sibyl Podcast is a podcast about culture and culture nomads designed for Blacks and Asians and those who love them. On The More Sibyl Podcast, Mo! talks mostly with an invited guest, who she is inspired by, on a variety of issues, related to cultural experiences or other lived experiences related to third culture. If your concept of home is fluid, you feel like you are neither here nor there, or you consider yourself a cultural hybrid, then this podcast is for you. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mosibyl/support
Episodes
Saturday Aug 19, 2023
Saturday Aug 19, 2023
The More Sibyl Podcast Presents:
In this week's episode, we're delighted to be joined by a familiar presence on the show. A warm welcome to our new listeners as well! We're pleased to reintroduce Doc. Ayomide, a SENIOR colleague and friend. For those who may not have had the pleasure of acquainting themselves with him, Dr. Ayomide is a psychiatrist and formerly served as a co-host on the podcast!
We deeply dive into a subject that has captured our attention on multiple occasions: the intricate art of community building. Our discussion centers on the intricate art of community building, prompted by an enlightening podcast episode titled "How To Not Go It Alone" by Julie Beck and Rebecca Rashid. Drawing parallels to Stephen Covey's "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People," we explore community building.
Our dialogue expands to encompass the intricate tapestry of cultures that shape our society. We candidly recount our encounters with culture shock after transitioning from Nigeria to the UK (for him) and from Nigeria to the USA (for me). We also delve into the captivating nuances of acceptable behaviors across different racial groups. Moreover, I share some of the enlightening perspectives I've gained through my experiences with community building as a new mother.
As we end our show, we delve into the concepts of openness and directness on an individual level. Our discussion also revolves around the essence of community building, strategies to alleviate the prevalent issue of loneliness, and the notions of freedom, independence, and interdependence.
We offer an encouraging reminder to ourselves and our listeners to be there for others, just as we hope others will be there for us. This mutual support and understanding create a nurturing environment that enriches our lives and the lives of those around us.
Be Well,
Mo!
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Saturday Aug 12, 2023
Saturday Aug 12, 2023
The More Sibyl Podcast Presents:
DISCLAIMER❗: This episode contains elements that some individuals may find disturbing and triggering. Viewer discretion is advised.
This week, we are excited to have retired psychologist and therapist Phyllis Leavitt join us on the show. With a background in psychology from Antioch University and experience as a co-Director of the Parents United sexual abuse treatment program in Santa Fe, New Mexico, Phyllis has been a professional psychotherapist for over 30 years. Her expertise lies in treating children, families, couples, and individuals, especially those dealing with dysfunctional family dynamics and the aftermath.
During our conversation, Phyllis and I delve into a challenging and sensitive topic – sexual abuse. We discuss its impact on both genders, share personal experiences, and shed light on negative societal norms and victim expectations. We address the issues of stigma and shame and break the silence surrounding this topic.
We emphasize the significance of speaking out about sexual abuse and how it can kickstart the healing journey. We also explore identifying behavioral tendencies in those who may have experienced sexual abuse. Phyllis offers insights into healing, including community engagement and pursuing hobbies.
Phyllis shares her motivations as an author and provides a glimpse into the content of her books. We also touch on how the government can support families and victims of sexual abuse.
As we wrap up the episode, we delve into the loneliness pandemic faced by sexual abuse victims, society's role in perpetuating stigma, and strategies for healing and moving forward, particularly for those from dysfunctional families. Phyllis even asks me why I became a podcaster – a question I've been asked several times!
Lastly, we discuss the possibility of having Phyllis back on the show for a panel session on suicide rates in prepubescent youth. Thank you for joining us for this engaging and insightful episode.
Be Well,
Mo!
Friday Aug 04, 2023
Friday Aug 04, 2023
The More Sibyl Podcast Presents:
The name 'Ogunyale' will surely ring a bell for anyone in the herbal medicine field in Nigeria. This week, we have the privilege of welcoming Mr. Oluniyi (Niyi) Ogunyale to our show. He is the son of the late Reverend Paul Ogunniyi Ogunyale, a true legend in the herbal medicine field in Nigeria and the founder of Nicosan (now called Paumascel), a breakthrough drug for managing sickle cell disease. Niyi takes us on a captivating journey, sharing life experiences and insights from his childhood in Oyo town, Oyo state, Nigeria.
During our conversation, we delve into the origin and history of the groundbreaking herbal drug and how his father founded it, including measures to prevent possible consumer addiction due to its alcohol content. We also explore the implications of the legal battle between the Ogunyales and the Nigerian Institute for Pharmaceutical Research and Development (NIPRD) over 'Nicosan.' Niyi shares his heartfelt account of the sad and heartbreaking events surrounding the case, shedding light on crucial details, including his father not signing the Memorandum of Understanding (MOU).
Towards the end of the show, Niyi and I engage in a thought-provoking discussion about the implications of cultivating trust between the local community and industry, given the legal battles the family is going through. He also emphasizes the importance of ensuring the accessibility and affordability of his herbal medicines while maintaining their quality and effectiveness. Niyi envisions his brand and an extension of his father’s legacy, Paumatree, gaining global recognition in the next 5-10 years, with a strong emphasis on retaining affordability and accessibility.
We deeply appreciate your continued support and encourage you to stay tuned for more engaging upcoming episodes!
- Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/the-nicosan-saga-e93c7b44727e
With Love,
Mo!
Sunday Jul 30, 2023
Sunday Jul 30, 2023
The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: 어린 시절의 추억| The One with Olabimpe - On Childhood Memories in Tenement Buildings: Episode 20 (2023)
Welcome back to another thought-provoking episode of our podcast! This week, we're joined by the inspiring Olabimpe, sharing heartfelt experiences growing up in tenement buildings or "Face Me, I Slap You" houses. It's a part of my life I never thought I'd share publicly, but it's crucial to empower others through our story.
Tenement buildings are communal spaces where multiple families reside, sharing kitchens and bathrooms, often facing poor living conditions and overcrowding. We delve into the unique challenges and intricate relationships of this living arrangement. Our journey takes us into the shame, retraction, and challenges we faced living in such spaces and the lasting impact as adults. Olabimpe shares how it made her extra cautious and jumpy in unfamiliar places, while for me, it sparked an obsession with cleaning and maintaining a tidy space.
Growing up in these conditions was truly eye-opening. We discuss the reluctance to invite friends over due to stigmatization. Even though we had control over our words and appearance, living conditions left emotional impacts, almost akin to PTSD, according to Olabimpe. Our experiences offer profound insights into the impact of housing situations on a child's emotional and mental well-being. Despite the challenges, we found strength in tight-knit relationships and community support. We address stigmatization and explore ways to break stereotypes and embrace our true selves.
Our parents played central roles throughout our stories, providing crucial support during tough times. Honoring them is essential, as they created a safe and loving environment despite the circumstances.
Reflecting on our journeys, we're proud of how far we've come and all we have gained. This episode offers hope that time and the smallest changes made to one's environment can bring positive change, and we're living proof of this.
- Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/childhood-memories-in-tenement-buildings-aka-face-me-i-slap-you-9c32546d3472
Saturday Jul 22, 2023
Saturday Jul 22, 2023
The More Sibyl Podcast Presents:
In this deeply inspiring episode, we have the privilege of meeting Nydia Nelson – a dedicated mom, educator, and true math enthusiast. Nydia's passion for math ignited at 16, inspired by a textbook-free professor, and she courageously embraced motherhood at 17. Throughout her journey, her unwavering love and advocacy have been guided by her mother's steadfast support, proving to be a guiding force in her life. Her mum gave her an ultimatum when she got pregnant, which helped shape her in the right direction.
However, life took an unexpected turn when her child was diagnosed with autism. In the face of this challenge, Nydia fearlessly shared her journey, seeking the most fitting support for her child. Her exploration led her to the transformative potential of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy, a decision she made with determination, choosing not to rely on medication for her son.
Nydia's story is a testament to the strength of a mother's love and her unwavering dedication to her child's well-being. Her resilience and commitment to finding her child's best support shine through every step of her journey. It is a reminder that love, determination, and unwavering support can make a profound difference in the lives of our loved ones.
Voting is still ongoing for the APVA Awards. The More Sibyl Podcast has been nominated as the Diasporan Podcast of the Year by @apva_official! 🌍🎙️✨
We need your support to bring this award home:
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Thank you for your support on this incredible journey.
Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/math-motherhood-and-miracles-a1d656155906
Saturday Jul 15, 2023
Saturday Jul 15, 2023
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We had the privilege of discussing the complex relationship between humanity and artificial intelligence in this insightful episode with our special guest, who happens to be my friend Doc Ayomide. He shared valuable insights on the fears, advantages, and disadvantages associated with AI.
Drawing from historical examples, we explored the recurring cycles of panic and concern accompanying new technologies' emergence. Doc Ayomide emphasized that while fears of a dystopian future where machines dominate are common, we have successfully overcome similar challenges throughout history.
We further examined the impact of technology and focused on the internet as a prime example. While initial concerns about privacy, security, and misinformation were valid, the internet has revolutionized communication, enabled global connectivity, and transformed various industries. It has also created opportunities for remote work, cross-border collaboration, and instant access to information.
Finally, we concluded that AI can improve lives, create opportunities, and address global challenges responsibly, especially in emerging countries in Africa.
We have exciting news to share with you. Our podcast, The More Sibyl Podcast has been nominated as the Diasporan Podcast of the Year by @apva_official! 🌍🎙️✨
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Voting is live now. Here is the link to vote:
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Friday Jul 07, 2023
Friday Jul 07, 2023
The More Sibyl Podcast Presents:
Our guest on this episode is Olabimpe Shode, my childhood friend, who recently recommended a highly enjoyable movie. Intrigued by her enthusiasm, we knew it was a topic we had to discuss on the podcast. During our conversation, Olabimpe shared how the movie resonated with her own experiences, growing up with a single mom and an absent father. She highlighted several scenes that deeply connected with her personal story and how she navigated through it all.
Olabimpe's journey of self-discovery and growth, shaped by her mother's unwavering love and forgiveness, is truly inspirational. She emphasized the significance of taking control of one's life, letting go of negativity, and embracing personal responsibility.
We invite you, our listeners, to share your stories if you have faced similar situations and how you dealt with them.
Thank you for your continued support, and stay tuned for more engaging episodes to come!
Disclaimer: Spoiler alert
Resources
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Read the blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/the-transformative-power-of-forgiveness-insights-from-the-movie-sista-d099b51672a3
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The movie Sistà produced by Biodun Stephen, is available on Amazon Prime: https://app.primevideo.com/detail?gti=amzn1.dv.gti.c95f6504-48c4-4b8f-b078-d257c1b7add0&ref_=atv_dp_share_mv&r=web
Saturday Jul 01, 2023
Saturday Jul 01, 2023
The More Sibyl Podcast Presents:
Raised in a tight-knit community, Mr. Tommy Mitchell valued family, faith, and preventive care. However, his life took an unexpected turn with a prostate cancer diagnosis. Undeterred, he faced the challenges with hope and resilience. In this episode, we explore Mr. Mitchell's treatment decisions, their effects on his life and relationships, and the crucial role of family support. It also delves into how his faith evolved, providing strength and positivity amidst adversity. The story addresses surgery's impact on sexual life, emphasizes regular checkups and cancer awareness, and empowers listeners to prioritize their well-being.
Outside of his cancer battle, Mr. Mitchell has led an impressive life. He graduated from Florida A&M University and has significantly contributed to the university and his community. From serving in leadership positions to touring with the Harlem Globetrotters, his accomplishments have earned him recognition and awards. He advocates for prostate cancer awareness and is a motivational speaker, using his experience to support others.
In his personal life, Mr. Mitchell finds joy in his loving marriage of 60 years and counting, three children, eleven grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren. His family is a constant source of love and support, adding richness to his journey. Mr. Mitchell's extraordinary story, combined with his notable achievements, creates a powerful and relatable narrative. It encourages us to approach life's trials with determination, unwavering hope, and a profound belief in the strength of unity.
Connect with Mr. Mitchell via email: tommymitchellsr@gmail.com
Tuesday Jun 27, 2023
Tuesday Jun 27, 2023
The More Sibyl Podcast Presents:
In honor of Father's Day, this episode explores the life of Mr. Perry Cole, a 65-year-old retiree from Texas and a valued member of my scientific community advisory board. His journey began with a prostate cancer diagnosis in June 2021, followed by radical prostatectomy in August of the same year. As of June 2023, his PSA levels (blood test for prostate cancer) have remained undetectable for two years, indicating successful treatment.
Mr. Cole's proactive approach to health is highlighted as he took charge upon receiving his diagnosis and emphasized early detection. He advised his sons to monitor their PSA levels due to the potential genetic link, inspiring others to prioritize their well-being. As a father to two sons and three daughters, his cancer diagnosis prompted meaningful health discussions within the family, emphasizing the value of familial support.
Throughout his journey, Mr. Cole discovered effective coping mechanisms for the challenges of prostate cancer. He emphasizes the importance of regular check-ups, open communication with healthcare providers, and seeking professional help for mental well-being. Despite changes in sexual functioning, he cherishes moments with his children and grandchildren, exemplifying a positive outlook on life.
Mr. Cole's story showcases the power of proactive health management, strengthening family bonds, and maintaining a positive mindset. His experiences and advice provide valuable insights for those facing a cancer diagnosis, reminding us of the potential for resilience and determination to lead fulfilling lives, even in the face of adversity.
Resources
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Read this week's blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/prostate-cancer-survivor-scientific-community-advisory-board-member-episode-15-2023-b67da900240
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You can connect with Mr. Cole via email: mrplcole@yahoo.com
Be well,
Mo!
Friday Jun 23, 2023
Friday Jun 23, 2023
The More Sibyl Podcast Presents: 구강내과 교수| The One with Dr. Omolehinwa - From Nigeria to UPenn as a Professor of Oral Medicine: Episode 14 (2023)
Join me in this thought-provoking discussion with Dr. Temitope Omolehinwa, BDS, DScD, DMD, a distinguished dentist and clinical researcher from Nigeria. Growing up in a family of healthcare professionals, Dr. Omolehinwa was immersed in science from an early age. However, a personal encounter with a toothache during her junior secondary school years ignited her unwavering passion for dentistry.
Dr. Omolehinwa's expertise lies in clinical and translational research, focusing on enhancing oral health outcomes for patients with HIV and other comorbidities. She also explores the fascinating potential of mesenchymal stem cells in stimulating salivary gland repair following radioactive iodine therapy.
Throughout our conversation, Dr. Omolehinwa shared her remarkable journey from Nigeria to the United States, where she pursued advanced education and training. She emphasized how her Nigerian training served as a solid foundation for her subsequent residency in the US. Driven by her passion for dentistry and inclination towards research, she decided to stay in the US, pursuing a dental degree while delving deeper into the world of research. This pivotal shift opened up new opportunities for her, ultimately leading to her successful application for the prestigious R01 award from the American Academy of Oral Medicine.
Our discussion delved into important aspects of oral healthcare, guided by Dr. Omolehinwa's exceptional expertise and engaging demeanor. This episode sheds light on her personal journey and educates and reminds us of the profound significance of oral health care. Whether you seek dental advice or are curious about the field, this podcast episode will leave you with a newfound appreciation for maintaining a healthy smile.
Dr. Omolehinwa is an incredibly intelligent individual, and I am grateful for her presence on the podcast. I thoroughly enjoyed my time with her, as it was filled with insightful discussions. I am confident that you will also find immense value in our conversation. On a personal note, Dr. Omolehinwa has been a cherished presence in my life since my university days. Not only is she one of the sweetest and gentlest spirits I know, but she also serves as both my sister and mentor.
Read blog here: https://mosibyl.medium.com/from-nigeria-to-upenn-as-a-professor-of-oral-medicine-d53e57c7f738